This was necessary because we used to cross-compile the library but
compile the precomputation programs for the build host. Now it's no
longer necessary and we can cleanly link even the external ASM
(which was the intent of #935).
On the way, remove an obsolete "-I" parameter.
This is a partial backport of secp256k1#988
https://github.com/bitcoin-core/secp256k1/pull/988/commits/7dfceceea692c4118829c06128c41623b2373ac2
Depends on D19401