This improves on D16465 by waiting for the response to GETHEADERS before considering a node to be reliable.
The GETADDR and GETHEADERS logic is reworked so that the messages are now send independantly of each other (GETADDR is only sent once a day for each node). There is still an issue caused by the fact that if the ADDR message arrives the node is done, and as such it can miss out on the HEADERS and incorrectly mark nodes as bad. This issue is fixed in a separate diff.
Upon first start of a seeder after this commit, all nodes from the existing are considered to have a verified checkpoint (until proven otherwise). This is to avoid clearing the entire db immediately and then have to repopulate it.
This is a partial backport of [[https://gitlab.com/bitcoin-cash-node/bitcoin-cash-node/merge_requests/1820 | bchn#1820]]
https://gitlab.com/bitcoin-cash-node/bitcoin-cash-node/-/merge_requests/1820/diffs?commit_id=4c8604800ba9ea67c61dd8c7c426d260004d853e
https://gitlab.com/bitcoin-cash-node/bitcoin-cash-node/-/merge_requests/1820/diffs?commit_id=878d33146204d87b05697c1ada093013b1ff36ae
https://gitlab.com/bitcoin-cash-node/bitcoin-cash-node/-/merge_requests/1820/diffs?commit_id=02ebf3679f9c1db8e88b966c028656ebc7bd4619
https://gitlab.com/bitcoin-cash-node/bitcoin-cash-node/-/merge_requests/1820/diffs?commit_id=61dca262b3b411a4ec906c838e5587517d7fcc5d
https://gitlab.com/bitcoin-cash-node/bitcoin-cash-node/-/merge_requests/1820/diffs?commit_id=024473ee09dcc9371cd73b51bea74c69a7692949
https://gitlab.com/bitcoin-cash-node/bitcoin-cash-node/-/merge_requests/1820/diffs?commit_id=e702140c2afa957d83351522586a23a6cb73d388
Depends on D16499