This adds an option equivalent to configure's `--with-asm=arm`.
It is mutually exclusive with the x86_64 assembly, so the
`SECP256K1_USE_ASM` is renamed to `SECP256K1_USE_Xcan now be set to `x86_64_ASM` for clarity` or `ARM` or
and an error message isany other value to displayed as neededable ASM completely.