```
This PR makes a few minor clean-ups to Misbehaving() in preparation to
move it out of the cs_main lock.
There are very minor logging changes but otherwise no functional
changes.
```
Backport of core [[https://github.com/bitcoin/bitcoin/pull/19583 | PR19583]].
Depends on D8792.
Some of our Misbehaving messages are updated to match core messages.