This leverage the avahello message to determine if a peer has avalanche enabled rather than relying on the service bit or the ability to ignore the unsupported messages. This will let poll only nodes (that don't set the service bit) participate in the address and compact proof messaging.
Sending the getavaaddr and getavaproofs are now sent upon reception of the avahello message instead of the version message.
The tests are updated in a way that makes them closer to the actual real use case: the nodes are non longer connected via RPC but use the regular peer discovery mechanism instead.
Depends on D11700.