scripted-diff: rename cs_SubVer -> m_subver_mutex

-BEGIN VERIFY SCRIPT-
sed -i 's/cs_SubVer/m_subver_mutex/g' ./src/net.h ./src/net.cpp ./src/net_processing.cpp
-END VERIFY SCRIPT-

refactor: replace RecursiveMutex m_subver_mutex with Mutex

In each of the critical sections, only the the guarded variable is
accessed, without any chance that within one section another one is
called. Hence, we can use an ordinary Mutex instead of RecursiveMutex.

This is a backport of core#24079

With Debug and TSAN

ninja all check check-functional