Backport of https://github.com/sipa/bitcoin-seeder/commit/36bd7f9a0f14b79e889715a05d71be1035f2a96b
This reduces network resource usage of the seeder by opting out of INV messaging from peers.
Relevant clipping from BIP37:
SPV clients that wish to use Bloom filtering would normally set fRelay to false in the version message, then set a filter based on their wallet (or a subset of it, if they are overlapping different peers). Being able to opt-out of inv messages until the filter is set prevents a client being flooded with traffic in the brief window of time between finishing version handshaking and setting the filter.
Source: https://github.com/bitcoin/bips/blob/master/bip-0037.mediawiki#extensions-to-existing-messages