Uncache UTXO on a per outpoint basis instead of a per transaction basis

Summary: This is a continuation of the work started in D342 . Before changing the underlying storage, we need to miigrate the API.

Test Plan:

make check
../qa/pull-tester/rpc-tests.py

Reviewers: freetrader, sickpig, awemany, kyuupichan, #bitcoin_abc

Reviewed By: freetrader, #bitcoin_abc

Differential Revision: https://reviews.bitcoinabc.org/D348