Pass bilingual_str argument to AbortNode()

Summary:

This PR is a followup of #16224, and it adds bilingual_str type argument
support to the AbortNode() functions.

Backport of core PR18927.

Depends on D8648.

Test Plan:

ninja all check-all

Reviewers: #bitcoin_abc, jasonbcox

Reviewed By: #bitcoin_abc, jasonbcox

Differential Revision: https://reviews.bitcoinabc.org/D8649