[backport#15906] [wallet] Move min_depth and max_depth to coin control

Summary:
extract min & max depth onto coin control (Amiti Uttarwar)

Pull request description:

• Refactor AvailableCoins to pull min & max depths from coin control.
• Add m_max_depth to coin control to support this.
• Addresses issue https://github.com/bitcoin/bitcoin/issues/15823, see thread for further details.

https://github.com/bitcoin/bitcoin/pull/15906/commits/80ba4241a6773590f6b2c18dae758097b5adc02e

Backport of Core PR15906

Test Plan:

ninja check check-functional

Reviewers: #bitcoin_abc, Fabien

Reviewed By: #bitcoin_abc, Fabien

Subscribers: Fabien

Differential Revision: https://reviews.bitcoinabc.org/D7042