depends: use latest config.(guess|sub)

Summary:
Make some of the dependencies support darwin-arm64-darwin. After that, the guix and gitian builds for this platform now fails when building openssl 1.1.1n rather than cctools (progress!).

depends: latest config.guess

depends: latest config.sub

depends: use latest config.guess and config.sub for libevent

depends: use latest config.guess and config.sub for cctools

depends: use latest config.guess and config.sub for sqlite

This is a backport of core#22526 and core#27508

Test Plan: guix and gitian builds

Reviewers: #bitcoin_abc, Fabien

Reviewed By: #bitcoin_abc, Fabien

Differential Revision: https://reviews.bitcoinabc.org/D14026