Add Binds, WhiteBinds, Whitelistedrange to CConnman::Options

Summary:

• add WhitelistedRange to CConnman::Options

Part of a series of changes to clean up the instantiation of connman
by decoupling the command line arguments.

• add Binds, WhiteBinds to CConnman::Options

Part of a series of changes to clean up the instantiation of connman
by decoupling the command line arguments.

We also now abort with an error when explicit binds are set with
-listen=0.

This is a backport of core PR10496

Depends on D1746

Test Plan:

make check

Reviewers: #bitcoin_abc, schancel

Reviewed By: #bitcoin_abc, schancel

Subscribers: teamcity

Differential Revision: https://reviews.bitcoinabc.org/D1747