[backport#19507] Add zmq test for transaction pub during reorg

Summary:
https://github.com/bitcoin/bitcoin/pull/19507/commits/a0f4f9c983e57cc97ecbc56d0177eaf1854c842c

note: disconnect_cb variable isn't used in this commit, it is and will
be introduced in the next

Depends on D7347

Partial backport of Core PR19507

Test Plan:

test_runner.py interface_zmq

Reviewers: #bitcoin_abc, deadalnix

Reviewed By: #bitcoin_abc, deadalnix

Differential Revision: https://reviews.bitcoinabc.org/D7348