[net processing] Take NodeId instead of CNode* as originator for RelayAddress()
Summary:
This is a backport of core#21186 [1/5]
https://github.com/bitcoin/bitcoin/pull/21186/commits/86acc9646968213aaa4408635915b1bfd75a10c9
Test Plan: ninja all check-all
Reviewers: #bitcoin_abc, Fabien
Reviewed By: #bitcoin_abc, Fabien
Differential Revision: https://reviews.bitcoinabc.org/D10927