[net processing] Move addr relay data and logic into net processing

Summary:
This is a backport of core#21186 [3/5]
https://github.com/bitcoin/bitcoin/pull/21186/commits/76568a3351418c878d30ba0373cf76988f93f90e

Depends on D10928

Test Plan:
ninja all check-all
ninja bitcoin-fuzzers

Reviewers: #bitcoin_abc, Fabien

Reviewed By: #bitcoin_abc, Fabien

Subscribers: Fabien

Differential Revision: https://reviews.bitcoinabc.org/D10929