Add query options to listunspent rpc call

Summary: This is a backport of Core PR8952

Test Plan:

make check
./test/functional/test_runner.py

Reviewers: #bitcoin_abc, jasonbcox

Reviewed By: #bitcoin_abc, jasonbcox

Subscribers: jasonbcox, teamcity

Differential Revision: https://reviews.bitcoinabc.org/D1916