[CMAKE] Use jemalloc as an allocator

Summary:
This adds an option to use the jemalloc library to provide the memory
allocation functions, which improves the performances (got a >40% gain
on ninja check duration).
For now the library is disabled by default, no version is enforced and
no documentation provided. This will be added later, after the library
gets added to the depends so it will build on all platforms.

Test Plan:

cmake -GNinja .. -DUSE_JEMALLOC_EXPERIMENTAL=ON
ninja all check

Reviewers: #bitcoin_abc, deadalnix

Reviewed By: #bitcoin_abc, deadalnix

Subscribers: deadalnix

Differential Revision: https://reviews.bitcoinabc.org/D6027