Merge #13862: utils: drop boost::interprocess::file_lock

Summary:
1661a472b8245eb4588fedbf19c9ed07a41e7602 add unicode compatible file_lock for Windows (Chun Kuan Lee)

Pull request description:

boost::interprocess::file_lock cannot open the files that contain characters which cannot be parsed by the user's code page on Windows.

This PR is seperated from #13426 for easier review.

Tree-SHA512: e240479cda65958bf6e1319840b83928b2b50da81d99f4f002fb3b62621370bcd4bcfacd2b8c0678c443a650d6ba53d9d12618b591e5bfd67ac14388a18fd822

Backport of Core PR13862
https://github.com/bitcoin/bitcoin/pull/13862/files

Test Plan: ninja check

Reviewers: #bitcoin_abc, deadalnix

Reviewed By: #bitcoin_abc, deadalnix

Differential Revision: https://reviews.bitcoinabc.org/D5005