qa: Add missing syncwithvalidationinterfacequeue to tests

Summary:
Backport of core PR12217
https://github.com/bitcoin/bitcoin/pull/12217/files

Test Plan:

./test/functional/test_runner.py mempool_persist wallet_zapwallettxes

Reviewers: #bitcoin_abc, deadalnix

Reviewed By: #bitcoin_abc, deadalnix

Differential Revision: https://reviews.bitcoinabc.org/D3460