net: Extend -bind config option with optional network type

Summary:
This is a backport of core#19991 [7/8]
https://github.com/bitcoin/bitcoin/pull/19991/commits/bb145c9050203b3f3d8bff10fb3bba31da51adb1

Depends on D10449

Test Plan: ninja all check-all

Reviewers: #bitcoin_abc, majcosta

Reviewed By: #bitcoin_abc, majcosta

Differential Revision: https://reviews.bitcoinabc.org/D10450