[backport#17843] wallet: Reset reused transactions cache

Summary:
If a destination is reused we mark the cache of the other transactions going to that destination dirty so they are not accidentally reported as trusted when the cache is hit.

Backport of Core PR17843

Test Plan:

ninja check check-functional

Reviewers: #bitcoin_abc, deadalnix

Reviewed By: #bitcoin_abc, deadalnix

Differential Revision: https://reviews.bitcoinabc.org/D7685