[backport#10973] Remove use CValidationInterface in wallet code

Summary:
91868e6288abf9d133620b585bc6de793a11e0e3 This commit does not change behavior. (Russell Yanofski)

Depends on D5870

This ia a partial backport of Core PR10973

Test Plan:

cmake .. -GNinja -DENABLE_WERROR=ON -DCMAKE_BUILD_TYPE=Debug -DBUILD_BITCOIN_WALLET=OFF
ninja check-all
cmake .. -GNinja -DENABLE_WERROR=ON -DCMAKE_BUILD_TYPE=Debug
ninja check-all

Reviewers: #bitcoin_abc, deadalnix

Reviewed By: #bitcoin_abc, deadalnix

Subscribers: deadalnix

Differential Revision: https://reviews.bitcoinabc.org/D5871