net, rpc: expose high bandwidth mode state via getpeerinfo

Summary:

net: save high-bandwidth mode states in CNodeStats

rpc: expose high-bandwidth mode states via getpeerinfo

doc: release note for new getpeerinfo fields "bip152_hb_{from,to}"

test: add test for high-bandwidth mode states in getpeerinfo

This is a backport of core#19776
Depends on D10961

Test Plan: ninja all check-all

Reviewers: #bitcoin_abc, Fabien

Reviewed By: #bitcoin_abc, Fabien

Subscribers: Fabien

Differential Revision: https://reviews.bitcoinabc.org/D10962