[backport#17518] refactor, wallet: Nuke coincontrol circular dependency

Summary:
3ed5e6819a50434449d92cb96b9d8d141e8c7d2b refactor: Nuke coincontrol circular dependency (Hennadii Stepanov)

Pull request description:

This PR gets rid of `wallet/coincontrol` -> `wallet/wallet` -> `wallet/coincontrol` circular dependency.

Backport of Core PR17518

Test Plan:

ninja check check-functional

Reviewers: #bitcoin_abc, jasonbcox

Reviewed By: #bitcoin_abc, jasonbcox

Differential Revision: https://reviews.bitcoinabc.org/D7694