refactor: Use DatabaseStatus and DatabaseOptions types

Summary:
No changes in behavior. Just replaces arguments and return types

This is a backport of core#19619 [3/8]
https://github.com/bitcoin/bitcoin/pull/19619/commits/0d94e6062547f288a75921d2433458a44a5f2297

Depends on D10225

Test Plan: ninja all check-all

Reviewers: #bitcoin_abc, Fabien

Reviewed By: #bitcoin_abc, Fabien

Subscribers: Fabien

Differential Revision: https://reviews.bitcoinabc.org/D10226