[backport#19260] p2p: disconnect peers that send filterclear + update existing filter msg disconnect logic
Summary:
3a10d935ac8ebabdfd336569d943f042ff84b13e [p2p/refactor] move disconnect logic and remove misbehaving (gzhao408)
ff8c430c6589ea72b9e169455cf6437c8623cc52 [test] test disconnect for filterclear (gzhao408)
1c6b787e0319c44f0e0bede3f4a77ac7c2089db2 [netprocessing] disconnect node that sends filterclear (gzhao408)
Pull request description:
Nodes that don't have bloomfilters turned on (i.e. no `NODE_BLOOM` service) should disconnect peers that send them `filterclear` P2P messages. Non-bloomfilter nodes already disconnect peers for [`filteradd` and `filterload`](https://github.com/bitcoin/bitcoin/blob/19e919217e6d62e3640525e4149de1a4ae04e74f/src/net_processing.cpp#L2218), but #8709 removed `filterclear` so it could be used to reset tx relay. This isn't needed now because using `feefilter` message is much better for this purpose (See #19204). Also refactors existing disconnect logic for `filteradd` and `filterload` into respective message handlers and removes banning for them.
Backport of core#19260
Depends on D9520
Test Plan:
ninja all check check-functional
Reviewers: #bitcoin_abc, PiRK
Reviewed By: #bitcoin_abc, PiRK
Differential Revision: https://reviews.bitcoinabc.org/D9512