Inspired by PRs #17340 and #15881.

- add logging
- pass -whitelist in `set_test_params` to speed up transaction relay

`wallet_avoidreuse.py` is not intended to test P2P transaction relay/timing, so it should be fine to do this here. This reduces test run time variability and speeds up the test by 2-3 times on average.

Test run times in seconds:

- before: 20, 24, 22, 17, 27, 40, 30

- after: 10, 10, 8, 9, 10, 7, 8

test_runner.py wallet_avoidreuse