[Part 2 of 2] [wallet] getreceivedbyaddress should return error if address is not mine

Summary:
Backport of Core PR11055

Depends on D1983

Test Plan:

make check && ./test/functional/test_runner.py

Reviewers: #bitcoin_abc, jasonbcox

Reviewed By: #bitcoin_abc, jasonbcox

Subscribers: teamcity

Differential Revision: https://reviews.bitcoinabc.org/D1984