Don't return stale data from CCoinsViewCache::Cursor()

Summary:
CCoinsViewCache doesn't actually support cursor iteration returning the
current contents of the cache, so raise an error when the cursor method is
called instead of returning a cursor that iterates over stale data.

Also update the gettxoutsetinfo RPC which was relying on the old behavior to be
explicit about which view it is returning data about.

This is a backport of Core PR10550

Test Plan:

make check

Reviewers: #bitcoin_abc, jasonbcox

Reviewed By: #bitcoin_abc, jasonbcox

Subscribers: teamcity

Differential Revision: https://reviews.bitcoinabc.org/D1906