[lint-circular-dependencies] changed expected dep list to establish baseline

Summary:
removed non-existent circular dependencies from list of expected deps in the linter
and added existent ones so that any change going forward gets caught

Depends on D5962

Test Plan:

./test/lint/lint-circular-dependencies.sh and see no output

Reviewers: #bitcoin_abc, deadalnix

Reviewed By: #bitcoin_abc, deadalnix

Differential Revision: https://reviews.bitcoinabc.org/D5963