fPreferHeaderAndIDs -> m_requested_hb_cmpctblocks
fProvidesHeaderAndIDs -> m_provides_cmpctblocks
This concludes backport of core#20799
https://github.com/bitcoin/bitcoin/pull/20799/commits/3b6bfbce386f61dcbb366f08cfff55c3882f429c#
Depends on D14874