Instead of hacking OutputGroup::m_ancestors to discourage the inclusion of partial groups via the eligibility filter, add a parameter to the eligibility filter that indicates whether we want to include the group. Then for those partial groups, don't return them in GroupOutputs if we indicate they aren't desired.
This is a partial backport of core#20040:
https://github.com/bitcoin/bitcoin/pull/20040/commits/f6b305273910db0e46798d361413a7e878cb45f7
Depends on D14021.